A.L.E.,
If you skied in those conditions like this guy skied on a Colorado groomer, you wouldn't have much of an A Frame problem.
When those photos were taken, he had just spent a few days working with Bob Hintermeister to develop CB and flexing. His focus and results were posted here
http://pmts.org/pmtsforum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=1625&hilit=hintermeister+counterbalance. (Of course, Max_501 had some constructive next steps in that thread to help the guy to the next level ... which are worth reading.)
When you're balanced over the outside ski, there's much less need to resort to an A-frame to "save" your turn. When you're not balanced out over the skis, your weight shifts inwards and the skis want to go wide to keep you upright. This tendency gets progressively stronger as the turn progresses. The pop up in transition would be less tempting if your balance over the skis were stronger so you could easily acquire the LTE or balance through a flexing 2FR.
But you are the guy in the groomer photos above, just a few seasons older. Those images are etched in my mind years after seeing them ... and I imagine that you remember those turns too. Read your old post and think back to your lessons with Bob. See if you can replay those lessons for yourself but double them to handle ungroomed conditions. If you have room for an extra thought, let it be "relax."
Since you get 15 days a season on snow, practice upper body (CB, CA) and flexing to release on a slant board at home. (Harald has tons of slant board YouTube videos if you need specific guidance.) When you do so, channel any thoughts or images that you recall from Bob's coaching and adapt them to the slant board.
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